

For the first secret of success in enjoying companionship, sharing and being cherished...
Context Window
Tools
Overview
Self-Assessment
Why we Resist
The Next Step
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Context Window
- What are your attitudes, opinions, beliefs and truths regarding relationships?
- Which of them work for you to create strong, healthy, mutually beneficial relationships?
- Which of them do not, and in fact create problems, disappointment and pain for you and others?
- How good are you at changing your mind about something when you know it isn’t working?
- Do you know what to change your mind to, or do you know only that what is showing up in your life is not what you want?
Watch this video (5 mins. 42 secs, 10.4 MB - please be patient while the file downloads to your computer)
Tools
- Which of your patterns is sabotaging your relationships?
- How good are you in making choices? Are you afraid to choose? Do you sometimes think you don’t have a choice?
- Is there stress in your relationships? How well do you handle it? Do you know how to reduce it?
- How confident are you? Is that affecting your relationships? Do you know how to strengthen your confidence and that of people around you?
- How effective are you in your relationships? Would you like to enhance your effectiveness?
- Are you afraid of conflict? Do you handle it well? How does this affect your relationships?
- How skilled are you in creating agreements? Do you ask for what you want? Have you ever dropped hints, made demands or tried to manipulate the other person?
- How much support do you have around you? How good a support person are you?
Watch this video (18 mins. 11 secs, 33.1 MB - please be patient while the file downloads to your computer)
Overview
To get a better idea of the Excellence Series please watch this video.
(31 secs, 1.03 MB)
Self-Assessment
What harms us most - in relationships and indeed, in our life - is what we do not know about ourselves.
Watch this video (2 mins. 49 secs, 5.33 MB - please be patient while the file downloads to your computer)
Why We Resist
If it's so important for us, why do we sometimes avoid self-assessment?
Watch this video (2 mins. 27 secs, 4.54 MB - please be patient while the file downloads to your computer)
The Next Step
To learn what thousands of other people have done to become more successful
and happier in their relationships and their lives, please watch the following video.
(2 mins. 57 secs, 5.48 MB - please be patient while the file downloads to your computer)

